Problems setting up netmeeting and Access

[Xenophane]

I have 3 rookie question that I have been trying to solve, I have spent hours reading in the forum, but have not been able to find a solution

Q1: I have made a small application that sets up Netmeeting on a remote location, it then dials up my PC, and shares it desktop, I send a "Ctrl-s" for sharing, but in order for it to automatically share the users desktop, I am sending a combination of {TAB} and {Enter} to press the buttons on the screen. It works 8 out of 10 times. I would like to activate "Desktop sharing" directly, if I use AU Info, I get that the options are in a listbox called "Listbox1", how do I mark/activate 1 line that listbox ?

Q2+Q3

We have a customized application for a public housing system we use, and I have tried to automate a reoccuring task with AutoIT.

Currently I have had to move the mouse to a specific location and, and then "click" there.. But that gives me problems when the program is run on another computer, with a different resolution. So I would like to access the buttons directly.

Here is what the Access database looks like. Access Database image

I am trying to click the "1. Hent tekstfilnavn" button, but when I use AU info, I cannot get any specific info on the button, only the "area" where all 3 buttons are located. How do I press the specific buttons ??

Last but not least, I would like to do a check on the last textbox, when that text changes to "slut" (Means end in Danish) it should close Access

Hope that the above rambling gives you an idea of what it is a am asking